Conversation365: parental responsibility

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

parental responsibility

amas32 Sushima Shekar
For how many years does a parent have parental responsibility towards their kids? My answer would be always :-) Other answers welcome.

18 hours ago 1 retweets #

panjamirtham Fraud Freud
@amas32 depends on how you define parental responsibility. to me, at my age now, them being my "safety net" of sorts is their only "duty".

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@panjamirtham So we have to change our responsibility /duties according to your whims! :(

panjamirtham Fraud Freud
@amas32 that... is inevitable, and was always the case, no?

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@panjamirtham I guess.... :-))

manosenthil பண்ணையார்மகன்@மைனர்
@amas32 till joinin kindergarten!

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@manosenthil போறுமா? அப்புறமா வாங்களே பார்த்துப்பாங்களா? :-)

manosenthil பண்ணையார்மகன்@மைனர்
@amas32 ஸ்பெசல் கிளாஸ், டியூசன், மூசிக் கிளாஸ், டான்ஸ்கிளாஸ், வொகேசனல் கோர்ஸ், கம்பூட்டர்..#நோ டைம் டூ சீ பேரண்ட்ஸ்! இட்ஸ் கிட்ஸ் லைப்மா!

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@manosenthil :-))

orupakkam ஸ்ரீதர் நாராயணன்
@amas32 The degree of responsibility is indirectly proportional to the age of the kids :-)

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@orupakkam What is your opinion on parents still having responsibility to get their kids married? Seems not reqd according to my kids :-)

4SN 4SN
@amas32 even though u didn't ask me, I will answer that. It is "my very basic right " to marry someone I choose. @orupakkam

NattAnu ரசனைக்காரன்
@4SN ம்க்கும். சம்பந்தமேயில்லாம ஆன்சர் பண்ணும்..சூஸ் பண்றத பத்தியா கேட்டாங்க..:P @amas32 @orupakkam

4SN 4SN
@NattAnu not marrying anyone is ALSO a choice, no? @amas32 @orupakkam

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@4SN Yes that is also a choice and that scares the hell out of a parent! @NattAnu @orupakkam

vsandhiyaa Subtle_Sandya
@amas32 amma sorry to confuse here, but marrying a total stranger scares the hell out of a child as well :( :roll: @4SN @NattAnu @orupakkam

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@vsandhiyaa Have no issues with children choosing their own partners, but until marriage happens it is prnts resp @4SN @NattAnu @orupakkam

orupakkam ஸ்ரீதர் நாராயணன்
@vsandhiyaa Yes! My niece was as apprehensive as I was some 10 years back b4 getting into the wedlock. @amas32 @4SN @NattAnu @orupakkam

vsandhiyaa Subtle_Sandya
@orupakkam true sir, loads of my friends have discussed this apprehension and parents say 'its all in the game' @amas32 @4SN @NattAnu

orupakkam ஸ்ரீதர் நாராயணன்
@vsandhiyaa All I needed that time was a sane meaning which nobody had. Later I ought to make one of my own :-) @amas32 @4SN @NattAnu

Arima_raj Raj
@4SN someone has to choose you, to marry! :-P @amas32 @orupakkam

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@Arima_raj யே அப்பா, அது எல்லா கல்யாணமாகாதவர்களுக்கும் இருக்கும் பெரும் கவலை! :-) @4SN @orupakkam

Arima_raj Raj
@amas32 Kalyanam seira idea illai, so bayamum illai :-)

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@Arima_raj Let us wait and see about that :-))

4SN 4SN
@Arima_raj I can 1y talk for me here. I don't care. :)))) @amas32

imkiishore கிஷோர்
@4SN 'very basic right' and still i feel accountable being for the right being 'granted' and ought to be justified :) @amas32 @orupakkam

4SN 4SN
@imkiishore agree. Hey, itz my life, life partner. Won't I use it carefully? @amas32

imkiishore கிஷோர்
@4SN agreed. imho it wud be more fun when ur choice meets parents expectations.may be coincidental or planned.doesnt matter. @amas32

imkiishore கிஷோர்
@4SN many parents are very sensitive to marriage issues with so much indirect/direct pressure from the society :) @amas32

orupakkam ஸ்ரீதர் நாராயணன்
@amas32 Are parents responsible to get their kids married? NO! But, if they believe in the virtues of marriage system they shd impart it.

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@orupakkam After which your duty ends, is that what you are saying, right? :-)

orupakkam ஸ்ரீதர் நாராயணன்
@amas32 It is just one of the stage in the metamorphosis. Of course the responsibility and repulsiveness continue further :-)

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@orupakkam very difficult, you have yet to come to that stage :-)

orupakkam ஸ்ரீதர் நாராயணன்
@amas32 Of course! But I had exprncd the prev stages of the process few years back 'What? ponnu paakka poratha? are you nuts? disgusting'

Arima_raj Raj
@amas32 till 15years or maximum till 18years

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@Arima_raj After that do you think no guidance is required? :-)

Arima_raj Raj
@amas32 resposibility is an umbrella. Guidance is one of the spoke. teachers can guide but they are not a parent

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@Arima_raj parental responsibility is so much more than any other relationship can offer you in your life time :-)

Arima_raj Raj
@amas32 the question is not on what parents can offer. How long nu thaan kaeteenga :-)

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@Arima_raj ஆமாம் எப்போ வரைக்கும் அவங்க அடல்ட் ஆகிற வரைக்குமா, திருமணம் செய்து வைக்கும் வரைக்குமா அல்லது அதற்கு பின்புமா?

Arima_raj Raj
@amas32 adult age ethu? Andha kaalathu murai padi kalyana vayasu was 12-16 ! Age doesn define maturity.

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@Arima_raj 21 to 25 years okay? If not married by then, then what? parents are expected to wait and watch?

Nattu_G ஓலைக்கணக்கன்
@amas32 getting married between 21-25?? ma u r scaring me. :) @Arima_raj

Arima_raj Raj
@amas32 yes. :-) u can guide them the path but you shud not make them walk cos that is the path you like

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@Arima_raj very difficult to stand by and watch though that is what I am doing now.

smukam முகம்
@amas32 for girl till her marriage. For boy till education

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@smukam Good answer :-) இப்போ @Arima_raj இவர் சொல்கிற பதில் தான் current trendஆக உள்ளது :-)

4SN 4SN
@amas32 after 21, u plz stop doing that. After 25, I know as much as you. Else it is your fault for nt teaching everything in 25 yrs. ;)

18 hours ago 1 retweets #

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@4SN This is exactly what my kids say :-))

puthagappuzhu வினோத்
@4SN so its not a sin to interfere him before 21.is it so? #damn_serious_qstn_from_a_அண்ணன் @amas32

4SN 4SN
@puthagappuzhu புரியல. ரெண்டாவது நான் அப்பா அட்வைஸ்சலாம்ன்னு சொன்னேன். நான் கேப்பேன்னு சொல்லல. ;) @amas32

puthagappuzhu வினோத்
@4SN less than 21 தம்பி படிப்பப் பத்தி ஒரு அண்ணன் கருத்து சொல்றது 'ஆதிக்க மனோபாவத்துல' வராதுதானேன்னு கேட்க வந்தேன் @amas32

4SN 4SN
@puthagappuzhu it is a discussion. You hv better data points, u present it. Decision is either parents or kid's (if he is good enough)

puthagappuzhu வினோத்
@4SN What if a dad seconds ur decision but an 'ignorant' kid things u dominate him by the way.. #சுயபுலம்பல் #I_quit_giving_suggestions

gowridash தாய்நே(தா)சன்
@amas32 பெற்றோர்கள் வயோதிக காலத்தில் உங்கள் குழந்தை ஆகும் வரை

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@gowridash :-))

_viju V
@amas32 Amma also says always. And I think I agree :-) Big time!

18 hours ago 1 retweets #

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@_viju Tell your mom she brought you up very well ;-))

happy_statue Happy Statue
@amas32 I couldn't help but giggle at this. @_viju

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@happy_statue aawww don't tease him ;-) he is like a son to me :-)) @_viju

_viju V
@amas32 :-) Well... this makes me a little weak and perhaps overdependent on them, right? :-)

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@_viju It all depends on how open a relationship that you have with your parents.

_viju V
@amas32 true.

krishvarun84 SrikrishnaNarasimhan
@amas32 now my amma says unakku ethu serinnu padartho atha seida. As long as u r happy with the decision u make. Antha maadhiri :)

amas32 Sushima Shekar
@krishvarun84 Good parenting! :-))

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